How To Impress A Girl On Chat

You can find almost anyone who live on this planet in the Social media platform like facebook. With these sites our world has became even smaller. That’s the power of technology. As a guy you have wide opportunities to meet and impress millions of single women on the cyberspace. But the question here is how many guys do actually know how to impress a girl on chat? and manages to take their chat to the next level?

Trust me i am not going to waste your time by giving a boring lecture. But what I am gonna do is, teaching you some brilliant hacks. Apply these on your online chats and start to catch the fishes.

As you are seeking the ways to impress a girl online, I assume you already have found a girl who is on your friend list  and you are trying to fix a date or trying to make her fall in love with you. Cheers dude! Both of them are easy. You can use the following tips to impress any random girl too.

Proven Techniques That Help You Master The Art Of How To Impress A Girl On Chat

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Beware! Your First Online Chat Is Like Your First Physical Date

Finding a girl in online is pretty simple. But remember if the girl you try to impress is a more important person to you (may be your secret crush), you should be little more careful. Because your first conversation is like your first date. Based on the impression you create at your first shot when next time you try, you may get a chance to chat with her or get a drop off. So before firing a blind hi to anyone take your time to get prepared. Here is how. Read on.

Get Familiar With Her Profile

If you want to get a guaranteed response, it’s important to do some background processes before your initial hi. First thing to be accomplished is “Get familiar with her profile”.

Spend some time to go through her profile and get to know her interests, previous posts she shared, likes, dis-likes, images, communities and conversations in which she is been active and the like things. These all will help you figure out what kind of person she is. It will also help you get along with her in your future conversations.

Make Your Presence To Be Notified Slowly

Now you are going to make yourself familiar to her without uttering a direct Hi.

Leave a humorous or positive comments on her new posts, status updates and videos. Do not hit any cold comments though.

If she is been actively participate in any communities or pages, join in those and make comments for the posts which she comments. For example if she likes the pages Game of thrones or Go home you drunk, you too like those pages and pass your funny comments on.

Idea here is creating an impression like you two are likeminded people.Okay. Finally you made yourself familiar to her. What is next? Repeat these things at least for 2 weeks.

However, there is one more thing that needs to be done before your first hi. It is none other than your profile clean up.

Make Your Profile More Impressive

The Girl gets a hi message from a stranger like you and she considers to reply. In this case, the next thing that any girl do is, check the stranger’s profile to see whether he is a trust worthy one. This same is applicable when it comes to accept a friend request.

So keep your profile look genuine and charming.

Following are some of the Do’s and Don’ts that help you create an adorable friendly guy profile

Do’s

  • Immediately delete all your nudity contents & controversial posts if you have done anything in the past.
  • Make some interesting posts and involve in your friends conversations regularly. Obviously it will give your profile a more legit look.
  • Keep a profile picture that genuinely shows yourself. Generally having the pictures with your pets will make any girl think of you as an awesome guy to have a friendship with.
  • Always post the images in which yourself and your friends are dressed neatly. Also post the images snapped at the beautiful moments with your friends and family during the outing or some parties.
  • Make her know that you hit likes and post comments in the groups and communities along side with her where she participates actively. When your comments are humorous and sensible, she will definitely get impressed. It will also develop a curiosity to visit your profile.
  • Showcase yourself as a caring and socially responsible person through your posts.

Dont’s

  • Avoid posting the photo shopped or fake profile pictures in facebook or any other social media
  • Do not let yourself to get tagged with the bad pictures uploaded by your friends or any.

Now It’s Time To Send Out Your First Message

You have successfully completed the pre-process. So now you are ready to send your first hi. But hang on. If you are going to ping a simple hi then consider dropping that idea. You have a better way of sending it.

As a rule of thumb, unless otherwise the girl whom you want to chat with, is your friend or co worker, you wouldn’t get a reply to your simple hi. Because on an average every girl on the social networking sites like facebook gets 10 hi messages every day from the unknown guys. This is why to get a reply to your initial hi, you have to go with an interesting chat starters like

- May I disturb the busiest person in the world for a minute to say a hi

- Do you know me but I know you somehow

- I know it’s none of my business but I’m just curious to say a hi to you

Once you hit a hi ,wait for the response patiently. Do not send so many messages. It will make her mad. Before getting to know how to impress a girl on chat, learn some basic manners that give you a gentle man image.

Expert Tip 1

Be Confident

 You may feel shy when you talk to your opposite sex. It is natural. But, have this point in your mind. You are not trying to impress a monster. So you don’t need to work hard to gain her impression. Just sit back and Relax .The girl you are trying to impress may be gorgeous but when your effort goes in vein, just tell yourself there are loads and loads of single women are out there that too within your reach.

Online chats are more convenient than the physical dates. Because you don’t need to worry about how you look. This is why Impressing a beautiful girl via chat is damn easy and convenient than trying to impress her in person. You can hide the nervousness which you suppose to deal with in your face to face dating .

You Got A Reply. So How To Initiate The Conversation?

You sent a message and she replied too. Now the turn is yours. You can’t expect her to start the conversation. Start the conversation by introducing yourself. To impress a girl , you need to be a good speaker too.

Things To Be Considered While Introducing Yourself

You have just added her so it will not be fair if you straight away jump off into her personal life. It’s good to start with how she is doing and what she do in her life.

Confront how you added her before she asks. You can say like you love her posts or comments given in the community where you both have membership. So thought of adding her as a friend etc.

Turn into a good listener when she speaks. Girl loves the boy who listens more during the initial stages. In order to acknowledge for what she says, send your responses quite often with some fun emoticons. You can find hundreds of emoticons in online dating websites. Make use of these to flirt with the girl of your interests.

You Got A Reply. So What Should Be Your First Conversation?

You have just added her so it will not be fair if you straight away jump off into her personal life. It’s good to start with how she is doing and what she do in her life.

Confront how you added her before she asks. You can say like you love her posts or comments given in the community where you both have membership. So thought of adding her as a friend etc.

She have just visited your profile before hit a hi to you. So be yourself during the conversation. If you try to fake it to someone else whom you are not, she will catch you red handed and it may make a bad impression.

You can compliment her posts and profile pictures but do not over do. After having a casual talk, try reaching a common point that matches with your both interest. Try to be humorous and crack some jokes in between. Keep your conversation brief and end your chat like by saying bye for now.

How To Proceed And Turn Your Conversations More Interesting

Once you both know bit better than in your profile after the initial conversation, you can ask her some impressive questions like whether she is interested in pets, what kind of music she listens, what her goal is etc.

May be like after a month of conversation you can start to show your care, respect and can also provide a hint on how you feel about her.

Try to sound interesting during your chats. If she had a rough work day, you can talk to her in a comforting manner. If she says she was sick yesterday, ask her how she feels on the following day.

Continue to like and post comments as like before. But now one step ahead you can message her after you post your comments on her pictures and interest.

Never try to impose your thoughts on her. If you find that she gets bore on any topic don’t take it any further. Change to some other topic.

Even you don’t really require, ask her suggestions on the things she is excelled at. It will make her think that you are respecting her opinions. Girls just can’t resist when you ask them the recommendations.

Let her know the things she never heard of. But never ever treat her like she don’t know anything even if it’s true.

Expert Tip : 2

Avoid triggering then ??? in your chats. It shows that you are running out of stuffs and not interested.

If you are getting then from the other end, it may signals anyone of the following

  • You are boring
  • She wants you to change the topic.

Never respond With Hmm..

Next to then, hmm is another online chat killer which also shows the lack of interest. You can use okay in the place of hmm.

Surprise Her Often Through E-cards Or Messages

For a girl you hardly knows her, you can’t send chocolates or flowers. But you can send her e-cards carrying the message how much she mean to you and how much you miss her. Show a little care. Girls love the person who cares her the most.

Invite Her To Take Up A Video Chat

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Now you have mastered the art of how to impress a girl on chat (Text). So its time to take your online dating to the next level. Ask her whether she can chat with you through web cam. But you should be very careful at this stage. Find a right time before you ask her. She shouldn’t think you like  you are the one who shows interest on her physical beauty alone.

Set Up A Meet 

So after a moth of chats and video chats,  you both knew each other. At this stage you can casually ask her whether is it possible to have a cup of coffee or eat a bite with her. Do not rush it up though. Rather than directly asking her the number or meet up, it’s good to glow with the flow. You don’t need to schedule a meeting at a 5 star hotel or a costly restaurant.

When you see her, never hesitate to admire her beauty. When you do, make sure you don’t sound vague in giving your appraisals. Try to be specific. Tel her like “You have a gorgeous eyes, lovely hair etc”. Once you saw her face through a webcam, you can say her like ” My webcam had a very tough time in handling our conversation , I think it must have stunned with your beauty”.

Surprise Her With A Gift

Who on earth hates the surprises? Wherever you meet, surprise her with the gift to her interest and again it does not need to be so expensive. Girls only value the way you present the gift to her not the money you spent.

Once you get the attention of a girl, it will become easier to impress her in a day to day live. Because you have already got some cool place on her heart, keep strengthening your relationship and become a master on how to impress a girl on chat.